Favourite quote

What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived.
It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead.
- Nelson Mandela

Monday, May 12, 2025

Can you have too much fun?

 As the weather cools, I've been experimenting with different outfit combinations, trying to bring in more PVC (I can't afford latex clothes). I really wanted to try the PVC in the rain, see if it bounces off my chest, but every time I put these tops on, the rain stops, the day worms up and I over heat. I 





Two nice things about the long black skirt, it hides my hairy legs and the other, when you remove the skirt, the undergarment looks like a mini dress. Well that's my take on it 😁










Here's the two new tops from Melbourne, trying to work the combinations. I was a bit annoyed with the white top, I wore it for maybe an hour, and after removing it, noticed the foundation powered on it. Maybe I have to wash after wearing it every time. 


Friday, May 2, 2025

Long weekend in Melbourne

Wife and I really packed in a lot
Visited family, did a hot air balloon ride and visited a couple of large malls.

I did get about 60 minutes in the malls alone as wife checked out toys and stuff to bring back for the young ones. I took a backpack, but on the way back it was twice as heavy with kids clothes. Okay the 1 skirt and 2 tops I brought back, I had to put in wife's large suitcase. 




Being super relaxed and chilled out after a fun weekend, I'm not really feeling the need to be "Rachel". 

I wore the outfits so I could show you the photos, but after the coffee, I soon got changed to boy mode
Maybe my crossdressing is stress related, but why would I be stressed at the age of 4?

White top ($12AUD) and skirt ($15AUD) from Valley girl, I was a bit time pushed to meet the wife at a coffee shop, so had to just hope the sizing was okay but at this price I wasn't concerned.
Leopard print top ($18) from Big W, while I tried a few nice tops on, without boobs, it was difficult how they would look once I was dressed up properly. There as flesh colour knitted jumper with a silver shine woven in (which was my favourite), but once on I didn't like how scratchy the material felt


Raveena - 
if you want to find a quiet place to start adventuring out, the Silverdale mall is small, has low foot traffic and the coffee is good, if your nervous, just focus on reading the coffee shop newspaper. Milford mall was where I started, but that was long before I drank coffee. Often coffee shops are quiet until about 10.30 on weekdays. Be friendly, respectful and smile like you enjoy being a female (many people don't get a choice).


Friday, April 11, 2025

Can you tell...

I'm getting bored writing these posts.

I know I'm always doing the same - shopping, coffee, but it's like writing into the silence, a community of ONE, the tree falling in the forest etc. etc. etc (I really like the way Yul Brynner would say the last bit, just don't call me old 😀).

I don't know if these pages help you, upset you or whatever. I think Google will close my email soon as it's never used

So with my hobby of crossdressing, I can remove my make up, my clothes, my boobs and even my nipples depending on the look I'm going for. At this stage however, I'm missing a nipple, so if anyone has a spare....? or otherwise I have to go with less "sticky out" look. I'm pretty sure it will re-appear but unsure in which location or who will find it.  


Since the last post.....

I picked up some cheap tools from Panda Mart for the grand kids to have at my house










While at the mall, I had coffee and grabbed some groceries


Wife wanted the sloped back lawn to have 2 usable levels, so I hired a digger and carved  some dirt out.








Then I had a few more coffees while the new grass was taking hold.



I nearly fell off the stairs one dark morning, so got some lights, a night sensor, solar panels and a voltage regulator for solar panels all from Temu to light the stairs. Cheap for us, but probably 143% more expensive now for my American friends.


More coffee



Okay, the Mitre 10 visit was a bit annoying, as a neighbour I want to invite for dinner, was shopping at Mitre 10, so I had to wait about 15 minutes for her to finish in the garden section before I went near. Add to that, it's day 2 of me wearing the same outfit.


Saturday, March 22, 2025

What a start to the day

Figured I'd get an early coffee Friday morning. I was dressed pretty but no make up, not even lips stick.  What I didn't expect was Columbus coffee to have a BNI networking conference. I said "hello" and "Good morning" so many times, my voice had almost broken by the time I got the the counter to purchase my breakfast and coffee. Okay there was probably only 22 people in total, but about 14 greetings while I was in the queue. It was a fishnet stocking and pvc skirt morning.













I did get a bit of shopping in this week, some bark for the garden from Palmers garden center, wind was blowing my hair all over the place (last Sunday). Tuesday was a Kmart visit and Thursday was just browsing the shops and picking up some dinner items.




One Highlight - Wife and I spent the night in Cambridge countryside after a lovely pub meal and I spent an hour photographing the sky (no processing, just enjoying taking the photos, watching the stars and drinking wine).




And today we had a great experience by attending the NZ House and Garden tour. Wife came back home with lots of ideas. I just need to win Lotto now and we could do some of them 😁


Sunday, March 16, 2025

Short Skirts

So, no surprise but some viewers want me in short skirts. 

It's been hot enough and I do like my legs (remember, a knee specialist said I had young looking knees, after he saw the x-ray). 




Anyway, I got out for a bit of sun on my legs. I was wearing the padded underwear, not sure if it helped the look or just put strange bulges on my butt.



But it was nice driving around with the sun on my legs. Every time I looked down, brought a smile to my lips. Okay, I need a leg wax, like asap, but I still like them.


I know I'm getting old, can't remember what I was buying at the shops (probably just a coffee and a piece of cake). I do remember I was having fun and everyone was polite - maybe I just live in the best part of town - the part that doesn't have BS or people with big egos.

I got home around 11am, had a cup of tea with wife before changing for the day. We had a lunch time picnic by a river before she picked up a toy cabinet in the area. I was in a hurry to deploy my drone, so wasn't really watching the exposure on the Canon camera. I need more practice with both the camera and drone.



Once we got home, I decided I should level a bit of ground for a pool (being the man of the house?). I was going to wait a few weeks and hire a digger, but really wanted the pool ready sooner. I mean it was only 9 inches of baked soil and bamboo roots. The sun was blistering hot and after a few showers under the garden hose to cool down, my mascara and eyeliner gave me "panda eyes". The fact I was allowed eyeliner and mascara while out with my wife was a pleasant surprise. 


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I also enjoy Bunning Hardware, good coffee, cool selection of power tools and even flowers for the wife - okay, actually she wanted 3 bags of potting mix but she can't lift that weight, so she sends me 😁

I'm still looking for outdoor lights that will work nicely with our lovely deck, maybe solar or 12v, I haven't figured out which way I want to go yet.



But all this shopping, lifting heavy bags of potting mix is draining in this heat, and I really need to cool down, so another fun time with the garden hose.