Favourite quote

What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived.
It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead.
- Nelson Mandela

Monday, March 27, 2023

Free speech is a bit like a free lunch

I'm for free speech (free of hate, free of victimization), but that doesn't mean we give everyone a microphone or need to point a TV camera at every plonker who wants to say something. 

It's funny how people can "feel threatened" by a man who prefers to be a compassionate, caring, empathetic woman, yet rapists, murders, bikie thugs, child bashers etc are well down on their list of cares, where are the good people who are anti that sort of stuff, or are they out there, but just didn't get the microphone?

Busy Saturday, had a great time with grandson and I fixing grandma's car (oil & water) and 3 hours of home maintenance, digging and braking open some drain pipes and re-fixing them, mowing the lawn. It's important to have boys time even if the jobs takes 3 times longer. The nice thing about fluidity is it's just as easy to be the role model grandpa (and neither is an act, but each just part of what makes "me")

Anyway, fun Sunday without upsetting anyone....

Oil and filter change. Oil from The Warehouse and filter from Repco, which was a mistake as Repco had a special deal on both that would have saved me a bit of money. The change went well except my makeup was ruined by black oil splashed on my face.

Luckily I had breakfast coffee earlier
I also needed a keyboard for home, so visited Noel Lemming - they were my favourite shop when they first opened and I still have my coffee table from about 30 years ago.



With the oil change done, I had to replace the brake pads, so back to Repco for pads. Funnily enough, even though I had changed my clothes, the staff member still remembered me 😁 (from an hour earlier)

Another excuse for a late brunch.

So, the big news - no woman went unheard while I was dressed the way I feel comfortable, no woman appeared offended (okay, maybe amused judging by the smiles). 

My daughters remind me, being a woman is way better than being a man, and I tend to agree.


Earlier in the week, being encouraged by some woman looking trendy with strapping around her chest and shoulders, I felt like my corset might also be on trend - or not, but it does feel nice having support around my waist.






6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Rachel. Partner is away again so Anneke is out to play. Think Ill venture out a bit later, its 9:30 now. Maybe Silverdale again. Got some nice clip on earrings and a choker necklace to hide ny apple!!! Look pretty good. I think so anyway. Never had anyone to tell me otherwise. Should be able to play out next month too. Wed 5th looks the best with partner away again. Lets see what today brings.
Anneke.

Rachel said...

Well done, I like the cafes in the small mall with Farmers, photo of me outside that Farmers on 27th Feb post. One day hope to do the indoor ski slope but not sure my head and wig will fit the helmets :)

Anonymous said...

luv the corset so noughty but nice sandra

Rachel said...

Thanks, I like naughty but nice, especially if it holds in my stomach :)
Really though, it is just clothing, if someone wants to add a meaning to it, that's on them.

Anonymous said...

Interesting comment about going back to Repco, and being recognized despite changing clothes.
Most people are now more relaxed, a few times when I have been out dressed a female I have been asked for ID. Showed them my drivers license, which is in my male name with male photo of course. No issue what so ever.
I am now working in an open shared office space. Dress female to work, no one minds. Happy friendly environment, people there just treat me like any body else.

Rachel said...

That's so cool.
When my workmate informed me she was a female and planning to transition she asked me if I minded.
I replied " you'll still have the same smarts, you'll still work hard and you'll still be fun to work with, yes?"
She replied "yes" so I said "I don't see any problems with that."

We had a great few years working together until she left the company.