It's a show my friends invited wife and I to, and one of my lady friends was upset I didn't dress up for the show (of the four of us, she was the only one dressed up). In the audience about 20% dressed up for the 2pm show, but the people arriving for the later show, it looked closer to 40% dressed up.
My wife doesn't want the friend group knowing about my hobby and told me Jeans and shirt, which was my preferred anyway.
There's 2 other points
1) I dress when I want, not on command
2) I don't like men in fishnets and corsets (I'm still too square about that sort of stuff)
3) I've worn fishnets more this week, than most of last year (okay, that's 3 points)
I don't mind fishnets if it's still with day clothes like earlier this week....(is that point number 4?)

We are still having hot humid days that I can't be bothered with wig or make up. I'm still having fun, including a random woman approaching me for directions (had to blur my face, looking too much like our Prime Minister - or my grand dad, either way it's scary for me)